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Book Review: What To Do Before You Say "I Do."

I usually don't do too many reviews on my own site. I stick with Goodreads, or where I bought them. Mostly Amazon. But I thought that this book definitely could use a personal review on my site, as well as the other sites. It's just that good.



This book, What to do Before You Say "I do" looked promising from the description and it didn't disappoint. Whether or not you're in a relationship now, or sometime hope to be in the future, this has a lot of great information on learning who you are as a partner, who they may be, or who you will be compatible with. As well as why you may be having such a rocky relationship currently.

There are mini quizzes for you and a partner to take, or just you (as I did) to determine more about who you are in specific ways. Like one on whether you are an optimist or pessimist, and to what level. If you're low, medium, or high.

I love that Susan didn't spend the entire book talking about things and just went straight to the point. It's a shorter read, but because of that, you really get right in there and down to the details right away.

It's clear she has an open mind for any relationship dynamic as well. It's an eye-opening book to read. I will be rating it five stars on all the sites.

Some places to find it and her site as well.

Susan's Website
Goodreads
Barnes and Noble
Amazon
Kobo


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