I was working out in the yard the other day (my big inspiration time) and I couldn't help but think about relationships that we have with people. I was thinking (I do that a lot I know) about how none of us really wants someone to build their lives around us and make us their entire happiness, or who we are, but then, isn't that what we end up doing? Think about it. So many older couples, or couples who've been together longer than a year end up doing so much together and losing a huge part of themselves into relationships. I'm not talking about being co-dependent or anything like that mind you. Simply things we, in the beginning, fear the other person doing. After all, we all know that to be truly happy as a couple, you need to be happy separate from each other as well: having your own hobbies and interests, friends and relationships with others outside of each other. But what's interesting to note is that when you are a part of a couple you do more t...